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Dan Savage [1964-0] American

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Writer, Author

Daniel Keenan "Dan" Savage is an American author, media pundit, journalist, and activist for the LGBT community. He writes Savage Love, an internationally syndicated relationship and sex advice column.

Marriage, Family, Christmas, Death, Equality, Freedom, Happiness, Sad, Teacher, War

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Christmas can have a real melancholy aspect, 'cause it packages itself as this idea of perfect family cohesion and love, and you're always going to come up short when you measure your personal life against the idealized personal lives that are constantly thrust in our faces, primarily by TV commercials.	Christmas, Family	101
I got picked on a lot, even by teachers too. I liked to listen to musicals and bake, and my homeroom teacher found out and mocked me in front of the whole class for baking.	Teacher	102
I don't think it's the responsibility of gays and lesbians to reinvent the family.	Family	103
I have a thick skin, but I have a heart.		104
School is very conformist, and one of the very first conforming that goes on in preschool and kindergarten is gender.		105
One man's blasphemy doesn't override other people's free-speech rights, their freedom to publish, freedom of thought.	Freedom	106
I think the best thing for you to do is just live your life. Live a life that's worth living, one where you do what you want to do, pursue your passions. That way, if you meet someone, they'll be joining a life that's already really good.		107
Ultimately life is disease, death and oblivion. It's still better than high school.	Death	108
Really, when it comes to gay rights, there's two wars going on. The first war is political. But the culture war is over.	War	109
I don't think that sin and pursuing happiness are not necessarily the same thing.	Happiness	110
Preaching to the choir actually arms the choir with arguments and elevates the choir's discourse. There's a reason the right does it and does it well and triumphs.		111
Every question is a hypothetical question for everyone but the person who asks it.		112
Straight couples don't have to be monogamous to be married or married to be monogamous. Monogamy no more defines marriage than the presence of children does. Monogamy isn't compulsory and its absence doesn't invalidate a marriage.	Marriage	113
The Bible is a radically pro-slavery document. Slave owners waved Bibles over their heads in the Civil War and justified it.		114
The cultural expectation should be if there's infidelity, the marriage is more important than fidelity.	Marriage	115
A lot of kids are bullied because of their sexual identity or expression. It's often the effeminate boys and the masculine girls, the ones who violate gender norms and expectations, who get bullied.		116
Sometimes I talk to religious people about my column or what I do, and I ask them to, you know, read 20 or 30 of them and then come tell me that the message at the heart of every column isn't, 'Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.' In every possible sense.		117
Actual gay people can make many others feel uncomfortable and paranoid because they don't know and can't articulate what makes a person gay, and they worry that maybe they themselves are gay.		118
I wouldn't say that holidays are manufactured by corporations, but they're certainly exploited and mined by them.		119
A huge part of what animates homophobia among young people is paranoia and fear of their own capacity to be gay themselves.		120
The successes of the LGBT civil rights movement and the more prominent role openly gay people are playing in the public eye has actually turned up the temperature in middle schools and high schools for queer kids.		121
To be gay is nothing to be proud of. It's in how you are gay that you have something to be proud of, considering the obstacles placed in your path if you are gay.		122
The mistake that straight people made was imposing the monogamous expectation on men. Men were never expected to be monogamous.		123
Children have a right to some stability and constancy from the adults in their lives.		124
I'm allergic to dogs, so I couldn't even adopt what gay men typically adopt when they have that maternal gene.		125
Most Americans don't care about gay marriage.	Marriage	126
I believe it's in the best interests of a child to be in a stable environment.		201
Like it or not children are being raised by gay and lesbian parents all over America - as many as 10 million children. And it does nothing to make their lives more stable and secure to attack their families, to attack their parents to prevent us from marrying each other.		202
But it doesn't matter what you're doing, it matters how you're doing it.		203
How can you tell somebody whose is pursuing happiness that they're somehow not American when that was the very first promise that America made?		204
Mother's Day is a torment if your mother is dead. Valentine's Day is a torment if you don't got one. And at some point in our lives, we will be tormented by Valentine's Day even if we're relatively lucky in love.		205
I get letters every year from women who think Valentine's Day is an empty exercise, but are ironically pretty exercised when their boyfriends neglect or forget it.		206
When I was in high school I got involved in the fringe theater scene in Chicago, and I met some openly gay people. I could see that it got better, that they were happy and loved and supported. I saw with my own eyes that it got better.		207
You want to help gay kids, you have to reach them in middle school and high school, when they're being bullied.		208
Books are magic: you never know where they're going to end up.		209
When you're young and queer and closeted, you can end up in this place where you regard your straight peers as the enemy.		210
My dad was a homicide cop in the gay neighborhood in the city when gay neighborhoods were desperate, depressing, sad places run by the mob. The only gay people he'd met when I came out to him were corpses.	Sad	211
I own a lot of my house, because I'm Irish and from people who never owned anything.		212
You know, my problem is I can't say no to people, especially people who want to write me checks to do things.		213
The only way to get gay issues off the front pages of Canadian newspapers is to grant gay and lesbian people our full civil equality and leave it alone.	Equality	214
When I was a kid, and I was odd, the default assumption was that I was odd, not that I was gay. Now when a kid is odd in a Greensburg, gay or straight, the default assumption is gay.		215
To be a straight person and discover you're infertile is almost like discovering you're not a straight person.		216
In an open adoption agreement, you agree to a minimum number of visits - a floor, not a ceiling. It's enforceable.		217
A certain tiny percentage of everyone is gay.		218
There are so many people out there with less shame talking about their problems.		219
No, I'm not good looking.		220
The bullied straight kid goes home to a shoulder to cry on and support and can talk freely about his experience at school and why he's being bullied. I couldn't go home and open up to my parents.		221
I don't write about my life in my column.		222
I don't like to think about what school was like for me.		223
It's going to take generations of gay people marrying before these things start to feel natural. We haven't had it long enough to remake it as our own, so it does feel like you're getting dressed up in straight drag to do it.		224
Straight people are everywhere!		225
Women can go on marrying and pretending that their boyfriends and husbands are Mr. Darcy or some RomCom dream man. But where's that going to get 'em? Besides divorce court?		226
I am not an idiot, and I'm not a Pollyanna sort of kumbaya type.		301
If what you want is a life where your homosexuality is not an issue, move, as many have done.		302
A lot of people are living their lives online in much more public ways with Facebook and Twitter.		303
I treat people who write me the way my friends and I all treat each other when we go to each other for advice, which is sometimes with supreme cruelty.		304
See, I'm a subverter at heart.		305
I think the 'South Park' guys are brilliant.		306
I didn't want kids to think that to be happy, they had to be famous or rich or live in the big city.		307
So I don't feel particularly wealthy-but, you know, I pay my taxes and I know that I am.		308
I wanted to be a priest when I was a kid.		309
I'm an agnosto-theist.		310
Men were never expected to be monogamous.		311

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